
HELLO & WELCOME
HELLO & WELCOME
WHERE SCREENS END & CONNECTION BEGINS
What is Off The App?
Off The App is a dating network based in Wisconsin specializing in matchmaking and event hosting for singles. We curate personal introductions for vetted singles and host low pressure gatherings where real conversation can happen. Join the free matchmaker database, meet people at your pace, and choose concierge support when you want it.
Who is Off The App for?
For singles who value time, privacy, and kind connection. Most members are in their 20s through 70s and want something more intentional and tailored to their needs. If you prefer warm introductions and thoughtful follow through, you will feel at home here.
How does personalized matchmaking work?
We start with a private conversation to learn your story, goals, values, and nonnegotiables. We build a plan that fits your pace, then curate introductions from our vetted Wisconsin network. We confirm mutual interest before you meet and check in after to refine gently.
Is it free to join the database?
Yes. Joining the database is free and there is no obligation. All members are verified and subject to a confidential background check to support the safety of our community. Only the details you approve are ever shared.
Where are your events?
Our singles events are hosted across Wisconsin with a focus primarily on the Fox Cities, Green Bay, Oshkosh and the surrounding communities. These events are well-organized, intentionally low pressure, and grouped by age range. Check the Events page for upcoming dates and venues.
Why in person?
The world of online dating isn’t necessarily known for being warm or welcoming. Juggling multiple conversations, being left hanging out of the blue, and not to mention the increase of potential scams. This can all inevitably leave hopeful singles guarded and ready to give up on love all together. Our events and introductions are designed for natural conversation, clear signals, and genuine ease. The room is set for comfort, not performance, so you can simply be yourself
When is the next event?
You can see our full event schedule on the Events page. If you happen to see an event that catches your eye, mark your calendar and snag yourself an early bird ticket deal.

Upcoming Events
My Story
Hi, I’m Cassandra, the heart behind Off The App. For over 15 years, I’ve worked in the hospitality world, where I learned that true connection often happens over shared food, great drinks, and genuine conversation. Whether I was behind the bar, planning private events, or welcoming guests at the door, my favorite part of the job has always been creating spaces where people feel comfortable and cared for.
Like so many, I’ve lived the rollercoaster of online dating. I met my husband there eventually, but not before countless awkward first dates, dry small talk, and a lot of soul-searching. I know firsthand how draining it can be to put yourself out there and wonder if there’s actually anyone real on the other side of the screen. That’s exactly why I created Off The App. I wanted to offer a refreshing, face-to-face way to meet people who are hopeful, kind, and ready for something real beyond a screen.
At my singles events, I bring my hospitality heart into every detail so that you can simply show up, breathe, and enjoy yourself. From the atmosphere to the icebreakers, every element is designed to help you relax and make authentic connections. And beyond the events, I also offer personalized matchmaking services for those who are ready for a more personal, guided experience. My background in listening, observing, and understanding people has made me just as passionate about introducing individuals one-on-one as I am about hosting a full room of new faces.
Whether you’re joining me at an event or working with me as your matchmaker, my mission is the same: to help you feel hopeful, encouraged, and excited about the possibilities that come with meeting someone new.
If you’re ready for your next chapter, I’d be honored to help you write it.
Our Mission
At Off The App, our mission is simple: to make dating feel human again. We believe love isn’t about trends or technology, but about genuine people coming together and guided by shared values and meaningful conversation.
Through thoughtfully planned singles events, personalized matchmaking, and supportive coaching, we create experiences that feel natural and hopeful. We know how overwhelming modern dating can be, and our goal is to ease that weight by bringing back the human touch it so often misses.
At the heart of everything we do is a belief that love should feel sincere. Whether you meet someone special at an event or through a carefully chosen introduction, we’re here to help you take the next step toward a relationship that truly matters.